Tiny Pre Teens Links What Is It Reasonable For An 11 Y.o To Do On Her Own Socially?
What is it reasonable for an 11 y.o to do on her own socially? - tiny pre teens links
Shopping at the mall? Meeting friends for lunch? Round on the street, crossing busy streets alone?
I know I am a little overprotective of my daughter, but I wonder what the others get up their pre-teens, without them! It is sensitive, mature and I trust him. He returned home from a sleepover with a friend, whose parents at the mall for shopping and movies alone fallen. I had never in the sense that allowed him to do the front too. Maybe I'm too tight? She rings and walks alone or with friends for free at home (as long as I) an approximate time of return, but we live in a small rural community.
I am afraid to sue one of those overprotective mothers, but I also want a child.
What are reaching the other 11 years?
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Here's the thing ... I am 18 years. And I remember the 11 ... I had so much freedom, but it was not too overprotected. My brother is 11 now.
Well .. The rules are the same as it was for me years ago. He can go to the mall with her friends and spend time alone, provided that at least one parent to stay at the Mall. You do not always have an eye on the kids all the time, but at least in the vicinity and check from time to time. In addition, the parties and sleepovers okay, as long as you know the parents of friends who are leaving and an adult!
All unaccompanied by an adult (ie, a gift from parents)
The kids today have a lot of freedom and go into too many problems.
Ash
I was not allowed to the mall for me until I was 12, but my mother was overproctective for mothers compared with my friends. I think meeting friends for lunch is very good. Cycle on the busy streets ... not so sure.
Crossing busy roads alone ... and at 11 I was a little knucklehead. I once went to a nearby shop to get drinks with my sister and we had to cross a street is very busy during peak hours, but it is generally acceptable. Well, I was paying no attention along and started to cross the street. Luckily for me, my sister took me and brought me on the sidewalk, while a car zoom from me! My sister saved my life in the class! I want his daughter to cross on a walk with you that we are on a busy street, and you did not warn on the road. Do not say "acreful be, comes a car" and see how he does it. When it comes out, wait to pack his arm and leads him to the curb and another year, but if you wait until all the cars go by, it must be alone!
I was not allowed to the mall for me until I was 12, but my mother was overproctective for mothers compared with my friends. I think meeting friends for lunch is very good. Cycle on the busy streets ... not so sure.
Crossing busy roads alone ... and at 11 I was a little knucklehead. I once went to a nearby shop to get drinks with my sister and we had to cross a street is very busy during peak hours, but it is generally acceptable. Well, I was paying no attention along and started to cross the street. Luckily for me, my sister took me and brought me on the sidewalk, while a car zoom from me! My sister saved my life in the class! I want his daughter to cross on a walk with you that we are on a busy street, and you did not warn on the road. Do not say "acreful be, comes a car" and see how he does it. When it comes out, wait to pack his arm and leads him to the curb and another year, but if you wait until all the cars go by, it must be alone!
Yes, it is normal to do what 11 years on! They are too cautious. Let them live their lives and be back before dark. Otherwise, he end is an outsider who knows nothing about the world.
Not unreasonable. Children must be better controlled. Give more privileges as he grows. It will be a pariah. Problems when all her other friends to leave your daughter knows better. Things to do with it. Enjoy your to be young. They grow too fast, as it is. Good luck.
Not unreasonable. Children must be better controlled. Give more privileges as he grows. It will be a pariah. Problems when all her other friends to leave your daughter knows better. Things to do with it. Enjoy your to be young. They grow too fast, as it is. Good luck.
i woulda been broken, the father of my son just fell in front of the mall unsupervised .... shes 13, if they do not need an adult with time but at the moment .... She's just a lil girl .. Gullable
It really helps to know their daughters friends. Because if so, then you have nothing to worry about where he is because, if they so mature and wise as you describe your daughter, you should trust completely.
I've done that before 11
The only thing my girls went to school at 11 social w / o me. Or with an adult you trust me! (Grandma, Aunt)
If all they have to wait until later. Not to mention all the things that give there for her ..... At the age of 11 are not yet ready for publication.
You are nothing more protection. My girls had a lot:) We have also 3 rural town, brake lights ...
It would be p ***** parents, the deposit will be .. Without asking me first!
Good luck
No way ... No way .... No way .....
I see everything with an eagle eye ....
You can change certain things that you feel comfortable with to allow, but not about what "other relatives" or can not do not worry ... not his son.
Let that you feel comfortable and at their guns.
All sorts of things happen in small rural communities every day. Yes, after so many people around PPL is the ideal setting for pedophiles and other criminals.
Be careful and trust your own opinion.
No way ... No way .... No way .....
I see everything with an eagle eye ....
You can change certain things that you feel comfortable with to allow, but not about what "other relatives" or can not do not worry ... not his son.
Let that you feel comfortable and at their guns.
All sorts of things happen in small rural communities every day. Yes, after so many people around PPL is the ideal setting for pedophiles and other criminals.
Be careful and trust your own opinion.
can make a lot of what you want to do, make sure you know the rules. This is Wat happened I had my mother let me do what has not asked. I learned a lotta things that I can do, I hope my mom bcuz. Soo you can do things that sum ... but not alone, and I think you ought to 12 waiting to let them go to the mall and movies alone, you should never, with a few friends
My 10 years old, goes where no adult supervision. I wouldnt let go walk the mall alone, but I feel your space, but not so her.As couldnt really see the day when I'm good for nothing.
I do not think its over-protection, is really good. During this time, criminals are too fat.
I mean, I trust him, I make the belief in the right DESICCANT, but I hope that all of them. You do not want to fear, I want to be just cautious. And for me, is registered 14 in a few more freedoms
My 10 years old, goes where no adult supervision. I wouldnt let go walk the mall alone, but I feel your space, but not so her.As couldnt really see the day when I'm good for nothing.
I do not think its over-protection, is really good. During this time, criminals are too fat.
I mean, I trust him, I make the belief in the right DESICCANT, but I hope that all of them. You do not want to fear, I want to be just cautious. And for me, is registered 14 in a few more freedoms
Of course I'm here all the time, but here in Half Moon Bay is not anything unless it is in the summer are available. Me and my friends will usually watch, ice cream or a movie or go to the mall, if they are broken. Other times, just sitting behind the house of another person and crashed. But my mom dosnt like cuz we have children sleeping in all directions. But that's very funny. We are overcrowded in general.
Thus, the daughters of my workgroup. The people are really very active. We let them go alone to the sport. and use them later. But all parents to meet girls at the mall, ice rink, cinema, where every time you want. We stopped going to school sporting events as a group. School dances. such things, but nothing near the school. But in truth, at least one of us is usually not the whole time. We give the girls their place and have a ball. , catch up on what we can not be seen as they are there when needed.
Thus, the daughters of my workgroup. The people are really very active. We let them go alone to the sport. and use them later. But all parents to meet girls at the mall, ice rink, cinema, where every time you want. We stopped going to school sporting events as a group. School dances. such things, but nothing near the school. But in truth, at least one of us is usually not the whole time. We give the girls their place and have a ball. , catch up on what we can not be seen as they are there when needed.
My son is 11 and very mature, since we do not allow you to do something like this for him. It is home alone for an hour several times a week, but has strict rules about how she is at home. Do not cross busy streets, we live near a busy road. It goes cycling with friends, but never more than a mile from our house. I do not think that it is more protective, 11 it is still a child, a child too young not to think these things too.
My son is 11 and very mature, since we do not allow you to do something like this for him. It is home alone for an hour several times a week, but has strict rules about how she is at home. Do not cross busy streets, we live near a busy road. It goes cycling with friends, but never more than a mile from our house. I do not think that it is more protective, 11 it is still a child, a child too young not to think these things too.
I think 11 is too young, especially if the irresponsible acts if they are with friends. I think you should leave the setting at liberty. How to go to the mall with her but let her go to a store with your friends while you go for coffee. The child predators are still there, very catious places a.
I am in the 8th Class. My mom makes me almost everything. and believe me shes more protection, but I'm older. Im not sure what he can but when I was in Class 5 may ride my bike for Wendy's (on Route 9) is to go to the movies alone. and eating with friends in a cozy little restaurant like Applebees, Fridays or cold, and I can go to the library. sixith in the grade I was allowed to go to the mall, but not only on Friday evening. 7. Class I was allowed to go to Hurricane Harbor and left alone in the park 8th Class, I could go to the mall during the week and Friday night. (i dont really scary PPL go because) the night and I was able to go to great adventure fright firm.
- Im sure your daughter is responsilbe and the right decision. clung to her role will get angry. She knows where to go and where not to go. TSD, I would like the mall on Friday, because I am convinced that in TSD Tho even allowed. My mother trusts me to know that this scourge and make the right decision.
Sleepovers and shopping are the normal activities 11 years old. My parents gave me much freedom in this age to go out with friends without an adult, and because her daughter is deemed reliable but should not make too much thought. It is understandable if you are to protect and regulate their activities, but all too often the feeling of suffocation under its supervision.
And if the news about predators and child labor begins to worry about, remember that most of these events occur in areas known for crime. Assuming that were 30 abductions in the region every day, then there is no real need to highlight you on this. Even if you calm the nerves, with another adult around when you're with your friends is perfectly reasonable, until about 13 or 14
You're thinking a good mother and day that I am proud of all that you hold so take firm. I think if more parents are dense in the way you can kill more children each in the drive bye shooting. They do a great job keep the good work.
No way ... She's too young. There are too few pray for girls. She seems mature, but they do not know how to deal with certain situations that may arise to. Let the town, a food that is small, there are many children abducted in small towns. My children are 11 and soon I did not even know we walk out of school not because they picked to go through the Christian Quarter and crossing to a road. I'd rather be cautious and see how they grow so they have kidnapped and killed Jessica Lunsford and Polly in the class. Sorry, but the reality as it is now a day.
No question, my daughter just two days ago, 14 and I never let him alone. You do not see the news? I think does not believe in sleepovers, never know, later on in the house and someone in the evening. My daughter is in his own bed safely at home. It is your responsibility to protect his son. There is enough time to she's18 and responsibly. Good luck!
my school is like a block from the beach and have all these shops and a Starbucks subway and my mom lets me walk around the area with a group of people as long as the call before you go .. I can also go to the mall with a group of friends ... I bicicyle Soo? But in most cases I can do what I so long as my mother has the information in these ... ur not the girl has a cell phone could know you peace of mind that they can always call or u could make themselves feel better ... Since I am in 6th Class
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